Biyernes, Hulyo 27, 2012

AFFAIR ( cheater, manloloko)

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Affair - is a sexual relationship or passionate attachment between two people
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From the definition of itself, parang wala namang mali, pero when is an AFFAIR became bad?
They said in a relationship or affair, "two is a companion, but three is a chaos"


This issue of the US WEEKLY magazine shocked the Hollywood. An affair between Kristen Stewart and her director in Snow white Director Rupert Sanders.


People condemned Kristen calling her a Whore, Cheater, Ufaithful. Robert and Kristen ay isa sa mga young couples na tinitingala sa hollywood. And Director Rupert naman is married to a model named Liberty Ross with 2 kids. They dont deny the affair.  Marami talagang nagulat dahil bakit nakuha ni Kristen na magcheat lalo na't love na love daw siya ni Robert. 
Kristen's apology statement 


"I'm deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment I've caused to those close to me and everyone this has affected. This momentary indiscretion has jeopardised the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I'm so sorry.",


and so as Rupert Sanders apologized

"I am utterly distraught about the pain I have caused my family. My beautiful wife and heavenly children are all I have in this world. I love them with all my heart. I am praying that we can get through this together"

But then is an apology suffice to clear the issue between their partners?
Robert Pattinson na naging karelasyon ni Kristen for 3 years has not yet to speak up.  and so does the family of Rupert. Kristen Stewart had deleted his twitter account because of some nasty tweets pertaining to this issue. 

This kind of affair on the side of Director Rupert Sanders is called EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIR. This affair occurs when there is a relationship (romantic and sexual) outside of marriage. 
People's sympathy now is on Robert and Liberty. Pero sa hollywood hindi lang naman sila ang mga artista na naloko ng mga karelasyon nila or mga Hollywood celebrities na nanloko. Ilan sa mga iyon ay sina:

-Sandra Bullock, she discovered her husband is cheating in home on 2010
-Elizabeth Hurley, karelasyon niya noon si Hugh Grant na may kumalat na pictures na may kasama si Hugh Grant na mga prostitutes, Hugh apologized pero nakipaghiwalay rin si Elizabeth.
-Jude Law, nakipagrelasyon sa nanny ng kanyang mga anak kay Sienna Miller
-Ronan Keating, umamin din na he cheated behind his wife's back
-Halle Berry, niloko ng asawa niya, his husband admitted sleeping with other woman during their relationship
-Leann Rimes had an affair with Eddie Cibrian during her first marriage of six years to Dean Sheremett

(at ngayon sabi nila, Kristen Stewart is the next Leann Rimes daw!!!)



Being faithful is the most important lesson that everyone should learn when we are in a relationship especially if we are commited. I dont know the reason why would someone cheats to his/her partner? Temptations? Lust? Loneliness? or tired in the relationship?
Walang bagay na hindi madadaan sa matinong usapan, GOOD COMMUNICATION is the key. 
Heto lang ang maibibigay kong tips para maiwasan ang Cheating sa isang relationship:

1. Communication,
 if you feel that your needs were not being met, discussed with your partner  and find some ways para mapunuan ang mga pagkukulang sa isa't isa.
2. Examine, 
think thoroughly if the relationship with your partner is worth it till the end of time. Iassess ang inyong relationship kung may pinapatungohan ba. Sa pamamagitan nito maiisip mong mabuti kong gaano kahalaga ang isa't isa.
3. Sympathy, 
see yourself on the eyes of your partner. Think about the pains that you have inflicted on him/her dahil sa behavior mo or personality mo. And of course if may anak kayo consider them also, the emotional impact to them in regards sa ugali mo. Sa ganitiong paraan magkakaintindihan kayo sa inyong mga ugali at magbibigay ito ng paraan upang mas lumalim ang pagtingin niyo sa isa't isa.
4. Appreciate, 
always remember lahat ng tao mapamatanda o bata, we are hunger of APPRECIATION, always niyong  i-appreciate ang mga ginagawa ng partner niyo, Directly or indirectly. Always say THANK YOU HON! Mapamaliit na bagay or malaki, always appreciate them.
5. God - centered
a relationship with God in between is the greatest relationship, if kasali ang Panginoon sa mga relationship natin lahat malalampasan, lahat magagawan ng paraan. 


Thank you again! SKADOOSH!!!

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